My name change continues.

You can see my prior posts on legalizing my name change here and here.

Unlike two years ago, where I lost the ability to change my name legally due to an ability to afford it or meet the deadlines, this time my name change is legit.

Three weeks from today, I can legally go by Charles.

My first document with my name is several years old, from my first attempt to legalize my name as Charles. Formally I’ll be Charles, but entitles me to the chill nickname as “Charlie”.

I received two certified copies declaring my name change finalized, and sent one to the state treasury, along with the state department in charge of birth certificates. Starting the day my name change legally takes effect, I’m hoping my local DMV is open to wait in the long line to update my driving license…and if there’s enough time left, head to the local social security office to get my card updated, as well. (At least those vital records, and wait for a new card in the mail.) After that’s all done…yes, for a US citizen, I keep and maintain a current passport.

I’m waiting for a third, certified copy to bring to federal and other legal entities to show my name change is legit. If we all have a social security number that remains with us, why all this hubbub to legalize a name change?

Then the fun begins with all the other organizations in my life where I need to update my name change. Banking, car registration and insurance, re-register to vote, health insurance, updating the IRS, my living will, letting my LGBT clinic my “preferred name”/alias is now legal, my landlord, any legal documents including me.

The fun part, anticipating it, has ended. The real world work of updating everything begins.


Here’s an important tip while you’re waiting, or if you can’t afford a name change. Update that which doesn’t need legal documentation to reflect your name—your phone and other devices, social media, etc.

Use Google Pay or Apple Pay to pay for things, cash everywhere else, so you’re not pulling out a credit card that doesn’t bear your name; better yet, if you’re due for an upgrade, get a Samsung Galaxy S phone, as you can use it to pay anywhere that has a credit card swiped to pay. It uses extra technology than what Apple Pay or Google Pay solely uses, so you can pay at almost any store.

Author: Charlie

I live my life trying to be your everyday guy. Drink—maybe too much?—coffee. Watch hockey. Work to pay the bills. The truth is, there’s one major aspect of me that separates me from most men: I was born with a female body. I am three years post-op, and have never been happier with both my body and my life, or quality of life.

3 thoughts

  1. YAY! Trust me, you will feel so relieved when it’s official. I am still in the process of updating stuff though. I have most of it done, but I know there is still A LOT more to accomplish. I have decided to take the “change as I go” approach so I don’t feel overwhelmed. I just made sure to take care of the more important and commonly used items first. It is always a pleasure to meet you Charlie! I look forward to more of your posts.

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    1. This ain’t my first legal name change. I’ve been there. I’m just glad to finally correct this “mistake” just to please someone who now denies the anger at wanting me to simply masculinize my name, for personal reasons.

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